Once you get married, the most common word you get to hear on repeated occasions is: “compromise”. If it is not compromise then it has to be “adjustment”. The key to every successful relationship on earth is compromise or adjustment, whether it is even staying with your parents, or live in partner or even your spouse. When we get married and move in together, we always look for comforting each other, like accepting pink quilt or making cushions blue in living room. Or even parting ways with old couch and buying a puffy loveseat. The most heard out word is “compromise” of your choices and likings. But one thing on which daggers are always drawn is the choice of mattress and bed.
During the initial days of moving in together, you might like to use the same mattress which either of you would be using from a time of your bachelorhood. You both might come from different perspectives of life, he might like to use a mattress which is as comfortable as your rug is …to sleep upon. And you may like to have a fairy princess feel to your puffy mattress. So both get uncomfortable with each others choice. Top of all, if you have a pet, who likes to sleep in the same mattress as you do, this is surely going to be quite complicated.
I can suggest you solutions for this problem, apart from buying a good mattress of your ( both ) choice, you should also invest in a good puffy sofa or sofa cum bed. Anticipating one of you, would like to end up on it after a friends get together or late nights in home office. But above all, find a new mattress that’s the right size and cozy enough for both of you.
Determine The Obvious Must-Haves First – Choose Plush Mattress
Many people like firm mattresses and many people like to have a pillow top kind of mattress. And these choices would never meet in middle. So there is obviously no compromise on this point. In my opinion you may opt for plush mattress, because it somewhere meets you both in the middle of your choices. And none have to make any sacrifice in their comfort. It has enough support for providing a firm mattress feel and at the same time, cushioning for pillow top comfort. Generally pillow tops are preferred by people who like to sleep on their side or stomach.
There are two factors which determine this actually – one if your bed and second is your bedroom. If you have a large bed which is a part of the large bedroom then you don’t have any issue. But if your bedroom is not that big and bed is like queen size then you need to buy a mattress which fits into the same bed comfortably. At the same time also see the size of the mattress you require for comfortable sleep with your partner. Otherwise you both would have midnight fight push and pull. All the more if you have a child who sneaks in the middle of the night, makes you think for a slightly bigger mattress. So think before you finally buy a mattress.
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